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Bigfoot Mediation
Mediation Services for Families, Communities, and Conflict Resolution
​A calm, structured process for resolving disputes outside of court, with services available throughout Washington and Idaho.
Serving communities of all sizes, with a special commitment to rural and underserved areas.
20+ years of combined mediation and legal experience
What Mediation Is
A Practical Alternative to Court
Mediation is a structured process that helps people resolve disputes without going through a traditional court battle. Instead of a judge making decisions for you, mediation allows the people involved to work through issues together with the guidance of a neutral mediator.
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The goal is to reach workable agreements that address real-life concerns while reducing the emotional and financial strain that often comes with litigation.
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Mediation can help families and individuals:
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Resolve disagreements constructively
Focus on practical solutions
Reduce conflict and stress
Reach agreements more efficiently than court proceedings
While mediation cannot solve every situation, it often provides a more cooperative path forward when both parties are willing to participate.
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Who Mediation Is For
Situations Where Mediation May Help
Bigfoot Mediation primarily focuses on family-related conflicts, particularly those involving separation, parenting, and financial decisions.
Mediation may be appropriate for situations such as:
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Divorce or legal separation
Parenting plans and co-parenting communication
Child support discussions
Property or debt division
Modifications to past court orders
Some community and civil disputes may also be appropriate for mediation, depending on the circumstances.
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If you're unsure whether mediation is the right approach for your situation, the next step is learning how the process works and what preparation is required.
Why Rural Communities Choose Mediation
Bigfoot Mediation is pationate about serving comminities with limited access
Many rural communities have limited access to attorneys, court resources, and conflict-resolution services. Mediation offers an alternative path that can reduce travel, cost, and delays.
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Bigfoot Mediation was created to expand access to dispute resolution for individuals and families living in rural and underserved areas.
Services are available:
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Virtually through Zoom for clients across Washington and Idaho
In person by request in select areas
With a focus on practical, community-centered solutions
By helping people resolve disputes outside of court, mediation can reduce both the financial burden and emotional strain that conflict often creates.
How the Mediation Process Works
A Structured, Guided Process
Mediation works best when everyone understands the process and arrives prepared.
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While each situation is unique, most mediations follow a clear structure:
Learn
About the Process
Start by reviewing how mediation works and whether it fits your situation.
Prepare
for Mediation
Gather key information and documents so your discussion can stay focused.
Schedule
a Session
When both parties are ready, a mediation session can be scheduled.
Work
Toward Agreements
In mediation, the mediator guides discussion toward clear, workable agreements.
Preparing ahead of time helps ensure mediation sessions are focused and efficient.
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Preparation Matters
Preparation Makes Mediation More Effective
Mediation time is most productive when participants arrive informed and prepared.
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Before scheduling a session, clients are encouraged to review the preparation guidance provided on this website. This helps ensure everyone understands the process and gathers the information needed to make meaningful progress.
Reviewing how mediation works
Gather key financial information
Understand topics for discussion
Clarify goals and key concerns
Preparation Makes Mediation More Effective
Become familiar with the structure of a session, the role of the mediator, and what to expect during the process.
Gather financial or parenting information
Bring any relevant details such as income, expenses, schedules, or existing agreements that may be part of the discussion.
Understand topics that may be discussed
Consider the issues you would like to address, such as parenting plans, support, or division of responsibilities.
Clarify goals and concerns in advance
Think about your priorities, what outcomes you are hoping for, and any concerns you want to make sure are addressed.
Taking time to prepare helps mediation sessions stay focused, efficient, and constructive.
Meet the Mediators
Experienced Guidance for Difficult Conversations
Bigfoot Mediation is led by professionals with years of experience helping people navigate complex legal and interpersonal conflicts.
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LeeAnn Cargile and Barb Esselstrom work with individuals and families to guide productive conversations and help participants reach workable agreements outside of court.
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Their approach emphasizes clarity, fairness, and practical solutions that support long-term stability for families and communities.
What Clients May Appreciate
A calm, preparation-focused process designed to help people feel informed before mediation begins.
Before reaching out, I felt overwhelmed and unsure of what mediation would look like. The information was clear, easy to understand, and helped me feel more prepared for the next step.
— Family Mediation Client
I appreciated that the process focused on preparation, not pressure. Knowing what documents and information to gather ahead of time helped make the session feel more productive and less stressful.
— Mediation Client
Having access to mediation without having to navigate everything through court made a difficult situation feel manageable. The process felt respectful, practical, and focused on moving forward.
— Rural Washington Client
Frequently Asked Questions
Helpful answers before you get started
If you are new to mediation or unsure where to begin, these common questions can help you better understand the process and what to expect.
Bigfoot Mediation’s primary focus is family law mediation, including divorce, parenting plans, and child support matters. Additional mediation services may also be available for other types of disputes.
Not always. Mediation may be appropriate when both parties are able to participate meaningfully and work through issues in a structured setting. Some situations may require additional evaluation, preparation, or a different next step.
In most cases, mediation works best when both parties are willing to participate in good faith. Even when agreement feels far away, a willingness to show up and engage in the process is an important starting point.
No. While family law mediation is the primary focus, mediation may also be available for other disputes such as community conflicts, employment matters, landlord-tenant issues, small claims, and other civil disagreements.
Yes. Zoom mediation is available throughout Washington and Idaho. In-person mediation is available by request only in limited service areas.
Before scheduling, it is helpful to review how mediation works, think through the issues involved, and begin gathering the information or documents that may be needed. Preparation can help make mediation more productive and cost-effective.
Yes. The contact page and form are there for general questions about services, readiness, service areas, and next steps. Scheduling, however, should be completed through the website’s booking tools whenever possible.
Ready to Begin the Process?
Take a moment to understand what to expect before moving forward.
If you believe mediation may be appropriate for your situation, the next step is to review the preparation guidance and determine whether you are ready to schedule.
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Understanding the process and preparing ahead of time helps mediation sessions remain productive and focused.